March 2012
9 posts
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Wow, Heather Corinna from Scarleteen linked to this tumblr as a resource.
That’s kinda cool.
February 2012
15 posts
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asexualsanonymous:
I wanted to share a resource with you guys that has been invaluable for me with figuring out my sexuality, since I haven’t seen anything about it recently in the tags.
Demi Grace is a forum for people who identify as demisexual, grey-a, demiromantic, grey-aromantic, or elsewhere in the grey areas, and allies. My understanding is that there have been some problems in the past...
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grey-asexuality in fandom
i’ve been thinking that there needs to be an AceFest, like the LGBTFest on LJ. there’s been an Asexy Valentines Fest, but it focused solely on romantic asexuals, no grey-As or demis or aros. i thought i’d throw the idea over here and see if anyone’s interested?
Anonymous asked: can you be a straight grey-a?
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Another sweet story (submitted by elebuufish)
demisexuality:
I won’t give the long looooong story about the years I spent believing I was straight, just “damaged” or sterilized or stupid.
Instead, let’s look at what happened when I discovered demisexuality AND grey-asexuality. I confided in my beloved that I found something that made such perfect sense, why I never lusted for him until we were close for many, many months, and yet still...
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Anonymous asked: I identify as queer mostly for my gender/gender presentation; although I attribute it somewhat to my sexuality. I don't often use "queer" to identify myself, however, but it is an easy catchall term if I just want to make a quick reference- as opposed to explaining my identifications.
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Queer Writes Project is planning on writing a...
queerwritesproject:
Do you wanna help us out with it? Consider contributing!
We want to compile articles on LGBT history, personal stories, and quotes - that you make! Then we want to compile them all into a neat book and sell it online and (possible in an actual book) - then donate the proceeds to charity.
What we need:
We plan on having a chapter for EVERY SINGLE SEXUALITY and GENDER...
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I couldn’t think of anything unique or interesting to post this weekend, sorry. This blog has a lot of followers, though, so I thought I could try posting a discussion question. I know discussions on tumblr don’t work as well as on other sites, but reblogging works ok.
So, onto the question! Do you identify as queer based on your gray-a/demi identity? What about GSM (“gender...
Have a secret or positive message you want to...
acesecrets:
Share it with Ace Secrets!
Submit here
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Hi everyone!
I want to do a post of some sort this weekend, but I don’t really know what you all are interested in seeing. If you want to send in some topics, questions, or your own thoughts on gray-a/demi issues, please do!
E
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Anonymous asked: Could you possibly stop using the inverted triangle? It's pretty directly tied into queer history and since demisexuality doesn't necessarily overlap with queer identities it's appropriative and incredibly offensive.
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This is the demi friend, borrowing the tumblr for...
agenderace:
Because apparently this needs said. Yet again.
(possible tmi and trigger warnings, but nothing explicit.)
Things demisexuality is not:
Needing to be in love before you’ll sleep with someone
Needing to be in love before sex feels good
Not being willing to sleep with someone for any reason unless you’re in love with them
Only having sex under specific circumstances
Anything else...
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Hi everybody,
I’m a new mod here. You can call me E. I identify as…complicated, really. Agender (gender indifferent flavor) and not too picky about pronouns. In general I say original Spivak (‘cause I actively like ‘em) or female (because it’s what I’m used to). I’m panromantic, my sexuality is kinda fluid, and my position on the sexual-asexual spectrum...
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As the description of this blog is "A place for...
Please send an askbox message or Fan Mail to metapianycist if interested. Please signal boost this post, if you can.
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Anonymous asked: If you are romantically bisexual but would only have sexual relations with one sex and only if you knew them for some time, really loved them etc, is this grey-asexuality? I'm really unsure as I otherwise identify as asexual except for in very special situations.